Indirect Communication Style
Turkish communication can be indirect to preserve harmony and show politeness. Direct refusals or criticisms are often softened. Reading between the lines is important.
Usage contextsocial
Do
- Listen for subtle hints and implications
- Soften refusals with excuses or alternatives
- Use 'Bir daha bakarız' (We'll see about it later) for polite refusal
- Pay attention to non-verbal cues
- Preserve face for yourself and others
- Be diplomatic in criticisms
Don't
- Don't be too blunt or direct (can seem rude)
- Don't take everything literally
- Don't force direct answers to sensitive questions
- Don't embarrass people publicly
- Don't mistake politeness for agreement
- Don't press when someone is indirectly declining